Help. how do you help someone? Especially when they refuse help. And they can refuse help in many ways. There is always the classic, "i know you are there for me and thanks, but no thanks." or the, "I understand what you are trying to say, but i'm going to ignore you and keep griping." Then, the most frustrating of all is when they are completely open to your help, but you don't know where to begin to help them.
What is one to do? *Sigh*
Always pray for them, and always keep a hand reaching out even when they refuse to take it...but...
I wish the stoic people were not so stoic. Is it so bad to open up and let someone help you? It does make you vulnerable, for sure. anyway...
I guess sometimes it is scary to let someone help you. It is vulnerable. but it is always worth it in the end.
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